Some other positions that may be useful for those using straps for rectal intercourse are when the partner being penetrated is lying or kneeling on the bed while the penetrator stands from behind. Or, both partners stand up, depending on their height.

Measure the circumference of the penis by placing a thin and non-elastic string around the penis root.

Speaking of, don’t forget grinding. “Speaking as a bi woman, I can say people of all genders forget that penetration doesn’t just have to be going in and out and pounding away,” says Spencer. “Roll your hips and grind that strap.”

Originally designed as couples’ sex toys, double-ended dildos are still most often used with a partner.

If you have adjustable nipple clamps, start off at the lightest pressure and slowly increase the tension until it feels just right. This allows you to experience firsthand how nipple clamps work and feel so you know what to expect.

If your new toy is intended for partner play, I suggest treating yourself to a solo tutorial first. Becoming familiar with your vibrator’s features and learning what does and does not please you can help you and your partner make the most of togetherness.

you can suction your Fleshlight onto the shower wall and be able to penetrate hands free! Imagine the fantasies you can have now!

I believe everyone has their own ways and experience, tables, chairs, walls, toilet seat, etc. I don’t judge which one is good or not, just want to share where you can to stick it for getting maximum pleasure.

If your penis pump comes with a clear cylinder, you can even watch your shaft grow bigger and bigger. Some penis pumps include a ruler on the side to measure your growth as well as pressure gauges to monitor the vacuum-tight seal.

A pump can also improve your overall sexual health. It can increase your confidence and help you get over any sexual anxiety you may have. Plus, it can make your erections more intense! It’s a win-win.