I decided to surprise my lady last weekend. We have used several different toys but had never used one that attempts to look realistic. Well, except for the color. We were surprised to realize how much the " veins" added to the experience. The width is slightly larger, but certainly within the norm. The length is something nobody will feel is inadequate. The absolute best part of this product is the handle. It is ergonomic, and it is a solution to the problems that can happen when toys are used with lubrication or in the shower. To be certain the thrusting is really quick, thrusting is not the best for the first part, but once things are going...WOW! Not every woman is the same but if quick thrusting is something that you enjoy...this is a great option. We already have ideas how to incorporate this you into the next time we get to experience one of our favorite parts of our relationship.