Never be afraid of a penis ring because it just restricts some blood flow and gives you a longer, stronger erection, rather than cutting off blood flow completely.

Speaking of, don’t forget grinding. “Speaking as a bi woman, I can say people of all genders forget that penetration doesn’t just have to be going in and out and pounding away,” says Spencer. “Roll your hips and grind that strap.”

If your new toy is intended for partner play, I suggest treating yourself to a solo tutorial first. Becoming familiar with your vibrator’s features and learning what does and does not please you can help you and your partner make the most of togetherness.

A pump can also improve your overall sexual health. It can increase your confidence and help you get over any sexual anxiety you may have. Plus, it can make your erections more intense! It’s a win-win.

Some other positions that may be useful for those using straps for rectal intercourse are when the partner being penetrated is lying or kneeling on the bed while the penetrator stands from behind. Or, both partners stand up, depending on their height.

Depending on the type, the toy may have different specialized characteristics and purposes, but in general, it is designed to be pleasurable through vibration or penetration.

By properly storing your rose sex toy, you'll not only prolong its lifespan but also ensure it's always clean and ready to use whenever you want.

Have an open conversation with your partner: first of all, it is important that you talk openly with your partner before making a scene.

While most anal toys are “plug-and-play”, some other steps are necessary to ensure your safety when using them. The guideline for beginners will show everything you need to know.

Comfortable – While not specifically designed to be ergonomic, it’s still easy to hold during solo or partnered sex – we recommend spooning or the chairman.