Your lady is putting pressure on her vagina by closing her legs, so when you insert your plonker, she will more pleasure and you will too.

He can push my face into the pillow, hold me by the neck, drag my head upwards by my hair and reach under me to maul my breasts and play with my clit.

Speaking of safety any form of bondage brings the possibility of serious injury. We’re talking nerve and tendon damage leading to permanent loss of mobility, or even just a nasty and painful sprain.