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Speaking of safety any form of bondage brings the possibility of serious injury. We’re talking nerve and tendon damage leading to permanent loss of mobility, or even just a nasty and painful sprain.

Speaking of, don’t forget grinding. “Speaking as a bi woman, I can say people of all genders forget that penetration doesn’t just have to be going in and out and pounding away,” says Spencer. “Roll your hips and grind that strap.”

A combination of visualization, counting, and giving yourself permission to be pleasured has women can actually achieve orgasm not just in bed, but in their head. Remember, practice makes perfect!

Todd Baratz notes that there is no universally accepted way to use sex toys. He also asserts that couples should explore other male sex toys of different sizes, shapes and materials.